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11 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Started Knitting

I started knitting back in 2007 when I was in my first semester of law school. I was eager to find a healthy way to cope with stress and figured that knitting looked pretty relaxing.

A white knit shawl in progress piled next to a small basket of mini skeins of yarn and several antique books.

In the nearly 17 years since I first picked up my needles, I’ve been on quite the knitting journey. I no longer practice law, and now I design knitting patterns and create content for knitters who want to improve their skills.

Along the way, I’ve picked up a lot of knitting tips that I wish I’d known earlier. In hopes of saving you some stress and frustration, and giving you a bit of encouragement along with it, here are 11 things I wish I had known back when I was a beginner knitter.  

1. Yarn weight and fiber content matter.

I knit my first ever project–a garter stitch scarf, just like so many other new knitters–using Rowan Big Wool on US size 19 needles. The experience was so exciting that I immediately dove into knitting other things.

Mostly more garter stitch scarves using various wool yarns on various needle sizes. As one does.

But once I started knitting other things, I learned that the fiber content and weight of my yarn was really important. Unfortunately, I learned these things the hard way. I once bought a pattern that was meant for fingering-weight linen. I tried to knit it in a DK-weight cotton-acrylic blend. Things did not go well.

Nowadays, I take yarn substitution seriously. You don’t have to use the same yarn the designer used, but you do need to understand how using a different yarn will affect your final project.

2. Blocking solves a lot of problems.

Blocking is the process of exposing your final knit project to moisture, usually via water or steam, and shaping it so it can dry into a specific shape. If it doesn’t get water or steam, it hasn’t been blocked.

The reason it works so well for animal fibers and, to a lesser extent, plant fibers is that these materials have memory. That means if you get them wet and let them dry in a particular shape, they will be more likely to retain that shape and to return to that shape after stretching. Most synthetic fibers are less likely to do that.

It also allows the fibers to bloom, and this is where the magic happens. If your stitches are kind of uneven, which is common for knitters when they’re just starting out, blocking can help hide that unevenness. Blocked knits look smoother and more consistent.

A brown basket full of white and lavender yarn, a pair of light blue knit socks hanging over the side, and a pair of dark brown straight knitting needles sticking out to the right.

3. Wool isn’t just for winter.

For a long time, I thought wool was a winter-only fiber. It makes sense, really. People talk about cozy wool sweaters, but they never really talk about lightweight wool tshirts.

​Then I moved home to Southern California, and I quickly learned I needed to adjust my knitting preferences if I was going to survive and keep knitting here.

Now I love to knit tshirts from lightweight wool yarn. See, wool is sweat-wicking and has antimicrobial properties, which means it’s less likely to get stinky or stay stinky. Lightweight wool is great for summer wear.

4. Not all free patterns are equal.

When you’re just getting started out, it makes sense that you’d try to avoid spending too much money. After all, you’re still trying to figure out your preferred style of knitting and whether you like larger needles or smaller needles.

As a result, it’s common for a beginner knitter to start with free patterns. There’s just one problem: a lot of free patterns are free for a reason.

So how can you tell which free patterns are worth the time? Look for an established designer who offers one or two free patterns as a way to get to know their designs. Because the bulk of their income is from pattern sales, they’ll have gone to the effort to make sure this free pattern is also good so it can attract potential buyers.

You’ll probably also have good luck with designers who are established but publish many free patterns on their blog. These designers usually earn income from ad sales and collaborations with yarn companies, which means their work needs to be good to continue receiving traffic and sponsorship.

Many yarn companies offer free patterns to go with their yarn. These patterns can be hit or miss, so check forums for input. 

As for my free patterns? They’re tech edited just like my regular patterns to make sure they’re as error-free as possible.

5. Every knitter’s gauge is unique.

Gauge refers to how many stitches there are per horizontal and vertical inch in your work. The more stitches per inch, the tighter your gauge.

The thing is, two knitters could be using the exact same materials–say, worsted weight yarn on 4 mm straight needles–and yet end up with drastically different gauge. That’s because gauge is affected by your materials and needles, but it’s also affected by the way you hold your yarn, the way you make your stitches, the way you tug your yarn after making a stitch, etc.

So when you start a project from a new-to-you designer, it’s important not to assume your gauge will match theirs. Knit a gauge swatch. Save yourself the grief of spending 30 hours on a garment only for it to be much too big or way too small.

A dressmaker's form draped with a dark brown garter stitch scarf. In the background is a print of an old landscape painting in a wooden frame.
My first ever knitting project: a garter stitch scarf with many imperfections.

6. Mistakes aren’t the end of the world.

When I was a beginning knitter, I struggled a lot with perfectionism. Over the years, knitting helped me learn that a lot of mistakes really aren’t a big deal. In fact, most people don’t even notice the mistakes that seem really obvious to me.

When the mistakes really do need to be fixed, most of them can be fixed quite easiliy. I learned to fix dropped stitches, rip back a little bit and reknit, undo miscrossed cables, and more.

​Through all those mistakes, the most valuable lesson I learned is that even having to completely rip out a project and start over is okay. That’s because time spent knitting is never time wasted. If I have to start again, that just means I get to knit some more.

7. Learning something new with each project will help your skills snowball quickly.

With my very first project, I learned three crucial skills: the knitted cast-on, the knit stitch, and the knitted bind-off. I stuck to those three skills for a few more projects, but eventually, I knew I was ready to learn more.

So I adopted a policy: with each new project, I would learn one new skill. Doing this meant I quickly learned the purl stitch, increases, decreases, cables, basic lace, knitting in the round, and more. If you get stuck on a new technique, you can almost guarantee there will be some YouTube videos that can help explain it to you.

Most of the time, your new projects will also reinforce the skills you learned in earlier projects. This means you’ll keep practicing your existing skills while learning a new one. It’s a skill snowball!

A white sweater sleeve in progress on a pair of metal circular knitting needles.

8. Use circular needles to distribute the weight of heavy projects.

Most learn-to-knit kits come with a couple balls of yarn and a set of straight needles. Knitters on tv usually use straight needles, too, so a lot of new knitters think these are the most common and most useful way to knit.

But for heavy projects like garments and blankets, a circular needle with a long cable will be better for your ergonomically. You can knit flat on a circular needle, so you don’t have to worry about having to adjust the pattern you’re following.

Once you are comfortable enough as a knitter to know which needle tip shape and material you like, you can even invest in a set of interchangeable needles. I have some Addi Turbos that have been my treasures for 13 years now.

9. Stitch markers can help keep you from getting lost.

Stitch markers serve so many useful purposes. For one thing, they’re great for knowing when one round starts and the next begins so you know when to work which round of your pattern.

But they’re also helpful for knitting lace and for casting on large numbers of stitches. In both of these scenarios, if you place a stitch marker at consistent intervals (say, every three repeats of the lace or every 20 stitches of your cast-on), you’ll easily be able to see if your stitch count is off.

10. Know when you’re too tired to keep knitting.

I love knitting at night after the house is quiet, but sometimes, I’m just too dang tired. When you’re tired, you’re more likely to make mistakes or have uneven tension, and that means you’re more likely to have to rip back your work in the morning.

Now, I know I just said up above that time spent knitting is never wasted, but there’s a limit to even my patience. For that reason, I have a rule that if I make three significant mistakes within one episode of tv, it’s time to set aside the project and either pick up a vanilla sock or go to bed (because sometimes I’m tired but it’s too early to sleep).

​If you don’t want to knit for three hours only to have to rip it all out again the next day, keep an eye on how tired you are.

A grass basket full of mini skeins of yarn. The skeins are all pastel colors and spilll over the side like flowers in a bouquet. Blurred in the background are a white knit shawl on the needles and a blue and white lamp.

11. There’s always something more to learn.

Even the most experienced knitters know that there are always new things they can learn. For example, I’ve been knitting for 17 years and design patterns professionally and write extensively about knitting here on my blog, and yet, I’ve never quite gotten the hang of the magic loop method.

Maybe this year’s the year I’ll finally get it.

Whether it’s colorwork or new lace techniques or brioche or intarsia or or or, there’s always a new technique or skill to tackle. Think you’ve learned every skill there is? Cool, then you can try learning to knit those same skills in different ways (English style knitting, continental style, combination style, Portuguese style, Shetland style, you get the picture). 


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Beverly Gaines

Friday 6th of September 2024

I also have been knitting for a very long time, and still have my favorite needles! I also have some old instruction books that I love to g o through sometimes. Gives one a chance to dream! Thanks for bringing back emories!

Kathie Hansen

Thursday 5th of September 2024

What a fun "find" you are! Scrolling along yesterday, I found your site. I've now returned this morning to read thru your 11 steps to guide us from making mistakes. I bet most of us, found ourselves in that list! I am 75, still in love with all aspects of knitting, fiber and searching gor the perfect pattern. I taught myself to knit at age 14. Now, as you wrote, continuing to learn new techniques, challenging ourselves with each new project, seems to be the key! Learning Evan yhe smallest new thing, increases our love for this craft. I love your "skills snowball". Happy knitting and THANKS

Lauren Rad

Thursday 5th of September 2024

Thanks so much for your kind note! I'm glad you're here and hope the blog posts continue to bring you joy.

Wendy (Tassie Aussie)

Tuesday 3rd of September 2024

Some other hints. 1. You can crochet your garments together. (Makes it easier to unravel). 2. Knit childrens garments from the shoulder down (Makes it easier to add length). Always knit longer in body to last longer. 4. Cast on & off with 1 needle size bigger. I.e. 8ply bands ask 3.25mm, I use 3.5mm for cast on & 1st row. 5. Some people also knit the first row after cast on. 6. If using garter stitch for bands always end with odd side row. Better looking. 7. Have a basic / classic book of knitting pattterns (Patons Classic is ideal for, babies, children, women & men. That way you can make you own patterns, stripes etc. 8. Always finished yarn ball at the end. 9. If using multiple colours darn in ends as you go. 10. Be aware patterns can have mistakes. 11. If knitting left handed be mindful of cardigan fronts for making the buttonholes. 12. If the cardigan pattern has a sew on band & vertical pattern, add the bands stitches to the bands & leave on safety pin, when starting the body. 13. Always use a flat seam for rib bands / ribs & baby items. (have a long tail when casting on. 14. Use a "spacer" when sewing on buttons. Sew an extra button inside the garment. 15. Knitted garments as gifts are great especially socks (I gave all my 4 adults children, wool socks for Xmas once).Also make gifts for baby showers etc. 16. Always photo your finished garmennt, document /date in a notebook. I have been knitting a boys slashneck fishermans rib jumper, from a magazine pattern since 1982 & made ten garments. 17. Do not write on original pattetns, make a photocopy or use a notebook. 18. Never share original pattern, make a photocopy (you can lose irreplaceable patterns. 19. Place magazine patterns in a plastic sleeve. 20. Enjoy knitting, help other knitters to learn, share (copied patterns), join a knitting circle. Donate remants to others, for craft or "joseph" items.

Marny CA

Monday 29th of July 2024

Right, right, and right! Will send your URL to new friend who is new at knitting. Took me 40 years to try entrelac. Then found the process to be soooo easy! Same with BSJ by Elizabeth Zimmermann.

Meg Wilkinson

Monday 29th of July 2024

Not often I read this type of post but I've thoroughly enjoy thus one. Think I might attempt a lace pattern 🤔

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